Pre-orders are available now!

Book cover of Scott Hoying of Pentatonix waiving to the crowd on a stage

I can’t believe this is really happening! You can already pre-order a copy wherever books are sold. Available May 6, 2025!

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Where to buy:

Scott Hoying and his mom are hugging with a picture of them hugging the same way in the background.

About the Book

I wrote this book about the early childhood and career of my son, Scott Hoying, Grammy Award-winning co-founder of Pentatonix.

I talk about his life from childhood in Texas, coming out, his rise to fame with Pentatonix, and his married life. I share insights into his early successes and failures and how I tried to nurture a creative environment for my children. I also talk about my journey to becoming an ally.

The book includes a forward by Scott and a QR code for an original song related to his experience coming out. We also have other pictures and videos sprinkled in. :)

What People Are Saying

  • "This book is for every parent navigating the emotions and challenges of supporting a child who has just come out to them.  It definitely tugs at your heartstrings."

    — Bobby Berk, Interior Designer on Queer Eye

  • "Wow! I really learned about the  experiences and influences that shaped Scott into the person he is today. From his deep-rooted love of music and the challenges he faced along the way."

    — Loren Allred, singer-songwriter

  • “A touching story of a mom who is there for her child. Knowing Scott since he was 12 (and I was 13), before we knew and accepted ourselves fully but loved music, I have watched him grow into the amazing human he is today—and what a special mom he’s had to support and inspire him through all of it.”

    —David Archuleta, singer-songwriter

  • "A powerful book. When people first become parents, they often envision a life for their children that ultimately aligns with their own experiences. But as their children grow, they inevitably forge their own paths, ones that may challenge assumptions and invite others to see the world in new ways. For Scott’s mom, learning that her son is gay was one such invitation- a call to examine her fears, but most of all, her love."

    — Colton Haynes, Actor and Model

  • “This book is an incredible window into the beautiful family that guided Scott and his sisters to be as successful and happy as they are. I had the privilege to meet Scott’s whole family and see exactly where his strong sense of love, self-worth, and joy came from. I felt it right away—it was his mother. You know someone is so loved when they are so good at loving.” 

    —Christina Perri, singer-songwriter

About Me

I live in Fort Worth, Texas, with my husband and soulmate, Rick. I am a mom, grandmother, retired physical therapist, and now about to be a published author. :)

I may be a bit biased, but I believe I have raised three incredibly successful children whose careers have taken my husband and me around the world.

Over the years, I’ve been asked about how I’ve parented my son Scott to help him develop his musical talents and navigate the challenging entertainment industry. I was inspired to share my experiences in this book.

The Blog: Stories, Current and Past

My Blog
How This Book Came to Be (Part Two)
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How This Book Came to Be (Part Two)
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I saw Ken post on Facebook about David Archuleta's new memoir, so I decided to reach out. I thought maybe he could point me in the right direction. Kind as ever, Ken said…

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How This Book Came to Be (Part One)
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How This Book Came to Be (Part One)
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Starting a Dream

In August 2023, after years of encouragement from friends and family, I finally decided to write a book. People often ask, “How did you help Scott achieve his dream in the music industry?”

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Manuscripts and Memories
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Manuscripts and Memories
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I can hardly believe it—I turned in my manuscript! The book is already available for pre-release on Amazon, which is an absolute pinch-me moment, but it won't officially come out until June 2025.

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Merchandise

Proceeds will be donated to different organizations supporting LGBTQ youth, including the Trevor Project.